6 Ways on How to Keep the Romance Alive in a Relationship

Almost all of the relationships begin with the flying colors in our stomach, you get excited and all of the beautiful thoughts same with your partner is making it consistent. Before you had a partner, you’re starting to wonder why don’t even had one and tried so many things to be engaged with the opposite sex. There are even books, articles or even palm reading feeding you to all possible reasons to have a partner and how it works for you based on your attitude and as a partner soon.

When the day comes that you already found this opposite sex that pursuing you to have a magical feeling that you never felt to anyone else before, you started to have a conclusion that it will be the ideal and lifetime partner for you soon. Then all of a sudden, those expectations will lead you to situations that you never see it coming through because of the happiness you feel.

You feel that it was all so perfect, then you realized that you also need to be with yourself or the space between you and your partner. How to even keep your relationship alive? Here are some advises that the fire will keep burning with your partner.

Silent Mode

When you have a conversation with your partner and being present with your mind to your partner will make a different thing. You have to put all the things that may distract from being present or being together on that day. You have to be disconnected to the things that may cause disconnection with you two.

Date Night

They said that “When a man truly loves you, he will make time for you.” This is not only applicable to guys out there but also to girls because we don’t have to depend on someone just to make date work. It will make the relationship more exciting and be able to talk about your daily positive outlook on your life. Even on your day-offs have time together even just for a day, try making the distance to your busy life too.

Discover new things together

You may have different passion or perspective on things but discovering it together of those dissimilarities will also give the track to your relationship. It’s like appreciating each others difference.

Take by surprise

Surprising each other is not only on the first day of dating or seeing each other. Sending him stuff toys and flowers, messaging and complimenting him is not making old for your relationship. Sweet messages still make you smile while reading it and still giving a hug or kiss for each other is still showing the love you had since day one.

Make him/her miss you

You do not have to face each other all the time and not to have a hang-out with your friends. It is still important to stay connected to them even you are in a relationship. It will make you miss each other some time.

Excite together

You have to be fun with each other just like the old days. You have to be best friend with each other. Enjoy each other’s company.

According to Steve McGough director or research and development at Women and Couples Wellness, LLC., an associate professor of clinical sexology, IASHS that “Make sure to keep touching and hugging each other, particularly in a non-sexual way. Make it a point to give each other what I call an “intimacy massage” for about 10 minutes. It’s basically a message that doesn’t end in sexual activity. It’s very good for increasing affection and connection.” I am not saying that these ways will be effective to many of you but trying out those things will change your boring relationship in time.

You do not have to get s-ex every day just to keep out all of those boring situations but to keep it out of the box of keeping the connection happier as should it seem. It does not have to be perfect but allowing yourselves to discover and having a forum for keeping it better and for a lifetime. Share every fun memory you had will be planning and how you felt and soon everything you did for each other will make your love spark and grow.